tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post7788779306102392111..comments2023-10-28T20:05:41.334+05:30Comments on BLANK NOISE: The transformation of a slutUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-12997652382600044542007-06-07T01:44:00.000+05:302007-06-07T01:44:00.000+05:30Is it ok if i think of some women as sluts in my s...Is it ok if i think of some women as sluts in my sexual fantasies?<BR/><BR/>Some sarcasm intended.<BR/><BR/>I'm posting anon as i dont have a blog.<BR/><BR/>- ArjunAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-21268762336333188382007-05-26T16:40:00.000+05:302007-05-26T16:40:00.000+05:30After reading this blog and a few minutes of retro...After reading this blog and a few minutes of retrospection i realised how often i used the words SLUT and BITCH on other women derogatorily.Thanks for throwing some light on my arrogance if you may call it that.I'm sure those words will never even cross my mind again!Hunger Pangs!https://www.blogger.com/profile/15809277508462414024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-8984799957713483312007-04-30T13:50:00.000+05:302007-04-30T13:50:00.000+05:30I'm glad you are able to pen his down. All women i...I'm glad you are able to pen his down. All women i know are guilty of passing derogratory comments on/about other women. When we do it to each other how do we expect better out of men. Smart does not equal slutty. Comfort is not even a consideration when it comes to dressing options for women. I have been eve-teased more in salwar kameez than in western attire. i believe most of the men analyze a girl in salwar kameez as timid and meek and an easy target however someone wearing jeans as per them might be more outspoken. this is just one sect of eve-teasers though for other compulsive eve teasers who view women as objects clothing doesnt matter. they will tease no matter what you wear and i believe that. <BR/>Women first have to stop putting each other down and then pin point fingers at the guys doing so.Mussuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11461458446759133035noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-34787050060034810402007-04-09T12:06:00.000+05:302007-04-09T12:06:00.000+05:30would it have made a difference if she'd said, "lo...would it have made a difference if she'd said, "look at those girls, they're hookers"? because while being a slut maybe negotiable being a hooker is either true or false.Kochukandharihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08642153626804433509noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-44596360891046082922007-04-07T21:46:00.000+05:302007-04-07T21:46:00.000+05:30Ya i get the point you are trying ta make..We all ...Ya i get the point you are trying ta make..We all do that instantly...Widout any thought...<BR/>and yes..it mostly coz somewhere deep in our hearts we do envy them..<BR/>Coz they are coool may be..better than us in some kinda way<BR/>nice post!!Amandeep Singhhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06436485828898738823noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-52104733301492863142007-04-07T15:53:00.000+05:302007-04-07T15:53:00.000+05:30@ Annie: I think the very fact that you have so fe...@ Annie: I think the very fact that you have so fearlessly dissected and analyzed your action is commendable.<BR/><BR/>The point is, we need to really start reasoning with ourselves before we arrive at conclusions that we are all so used to arriving at.The moment we do that we will realize how irrational we are.How gullible we are to the conditionings of an opressive society.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15010339802506979153noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-20584421818982913142007-04-06T21:45:00.000+05:302007-04-06T21:45:00.000+05:30Hi Annie, we often use the word slut in a derogato...Hi Annie, we often use the word slut in a derogatory sense. Not surprisingly, since most abuses in most cultures derive from the female of the species. In Hindi notably, all the abuses for men or for women are derived from the female genitalia. And no one has paused to ask why... Even when we refer to women as "females", we are reducing them to genderless people, something which we don't do to men; we never refer to them as "males". Uunless women begin to understand how patriarchy influences langauge and object to it, things aren't going to change.Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04279878087585603554noreply@blogger.com