<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post7038335180959861886..comments</id><updated>2012-01-03T04:55:39.545+05:30</updated><category term='looking'/><category term='facilitate'/><category term='sticker'/><category term='dec13'/><category term='citizens'/><category term='blanknoisethisplace'/><category term='FAQ'/><category term='swear words'/><category term='Guest Posts'/><category term='vehicle'/><category term='behaviour'/><category term='help us meet our expenses'/><category term='street intervention'/><category term='ex eveteaser'/><category term='donate'/><category term='community'/><category term='campaign'/><category term='stalking'/><category term='lucknow'/><category term='techniques and interventions'/><category term='blogathon'/><category term='Blank 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term='question'/><category term='jagori'/><category term='public art'/><category term='shop blank noise'/><category term='wooing'/><category term='masculinity'/><category term='participate'/><category term='pamphlet'/><category term='food'/><category term='reporting to remember'/><category term='twitter'/><category term='flirting'/><category term='brushing'/><category term='derogatory remarks'/><category term='listen'/><category term='japan'/><category term='men'/><category term='blame'/><category term='dress code'/><category term='courting'/><category term='fear'/><category term='walk the night'/><category term='digital natives'/><category term='male behaviour'/><category term='name calling'/><category term='answer'/><category term='kya dekh rahe ho'/><category term='Step by Step Guide to Unapologetic Walking'/><title type='text'>Comments on BLANK NOISE: Anand's response to Locutus83</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://blog.blanknoise.org/feeds/7038335180959861886/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/10387075/7038335180959861886/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.blanknoise.org/2011/02/anands-response-to-locutus83.html'/><author><name>J</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/3044/801/1600/heo.2.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>3</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-6974976888804996819</id><published>2012-01-02T18:27:45.242+05:30</published><updated>2012-01-02T18:27:45.242+05:30</updated><title type='text'>I don&amp;#39;t normally comment on blogs, however I h...</title><content type='html'>I don&amp;#39;t normally comment on blogs, however I have to say that I rather enjoyed yours as it was indepth. 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Keep up the good work.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.kahlerlawfirm.com/" rel="nofollow"&gt;http://www.kahlerlawfirm.com/&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/10387075/7038335180959861886/comments/default/6974976888804996819'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/10387075/7038335180959861886/comments/default/6974976888804996819'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.blanknoise.org/2011/02/anands-response-to-locutus83.html?showComment=1325509065242#c6974976888804996819' title=''/><author><name>Toronto Slip and Fall Lawyers</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13349489014566464230</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.blanknoise.org/2011/02/anands-response-to-locutus83.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-7038335180959861886' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/10387075/posts/default/7038335180959861886' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1329915270'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-4110187109095159888</id><published>2011-11-22T11:20:13.173+05:30</published><updated>2011-11-22T11:20:13.173+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Knowing what to do and how to get things done is u...</title><content type='html'>Knowing what to do and how to get things done is usually very important. Naturally, it really is also very important to know the way in which to get it done. But that is not enough by itself; it does not conclude there. Knowing just what exactly NOT to do and what mistakes to avoid is also important. The simplest way to achieve that is to discover what mistakes others have made when seeking lawsuit loans and settlement loans so you can steer clear of making those same mistakes.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/10387075/7038335180959861886/comments/default/4110187109095159888'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/10387075/7038335180959861886/comments/default/4110187109095159888'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.blanknoise.org/2011/02/anands-response-to-locutus83.html?showComment=1321941013173#c4110187109095159888' title=''/><author><name>tampa personal injury lawyers</name><uri>http://rivaslawgroup.com/</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.blanknoise.org/2011/02/anands-response-to-locutus83.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-7038335180959861886' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/10387075/posts/default/7038335180959861886' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1188237173'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-5903297100830087279</id><published>2011-02-20T16:38:09.478+05:30</published><updated>2011-02-20T16:38:09.478+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Okay, I&amp;#39;ve some comments/ observations to make...</title><content type='html'>Okay, I&amp;#39;ve some comments/ observations to make. I&amp;#39;m a girl and girls do like being appreciated...I dunno, I&amp;#39;ve been having some conversations with other girls, well...like Locust puts it, they sometimes smile and well &amp;quot;ask for it&amp;quot;, I&amp;#39;m not saying ask for getting &amp;quot;raped&amp;quot; or &amp;quot;eve-teased&amp;quot; that would be a contradiction in itself. Because both &amp;quot;rape&amp;quot; and &amp;quot;eve-teasing&amp;quot; involve non-consensus- so one cant *ask* to be raped or eve-teased. But I found out, by experience, and by talking some other girls, that girls do enjoy others checking them out. In my shady kinda research (heh), I also came about blogs wherein women admitted to even enjoying flashing in public- kinda makes them feel good about themselves, etc. etc, and I could somehow relate to it too. Then, I thought where is the line between eve-teasing and well, appreciation? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I reckon it comes with the reaction- I mean I dunno...if the guy treats the girl like her body is all there to her...like that&amp;#39;s it, it kinda is very unflattering. And I dunno how girls know whether such objectification is happening or not in a guy&amp;#39;s head, but well, they just do. Like, if I&amp;#39;m on the metro, and my bra peeks out, and I find someone looking, and then I look at him, and he gives a kinda apologetic, but oh-I-couldn&amp;#39;t-help-looking smile, or even winks a bit- kinda showing that he knows your embarassment, but at the same time appreciates the peek, I think it&amp;#39;s kind of cute. On the other hand, if the guy looks like he could come right there, or well, makes a kissing sound, it&amp;#39;s so ugh...well, like that&amp;#39;s all what is there to me...and I feel like kicking his ass. =/&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think the idea for the guy- the line between harassment and appreciation- is to treat the woman not just as you know...hot people, heh, but also as humans- like understand that there also might be something else on their mind apart from sex, if they are showing some skin. And still understand that showing skin does not mean that she&amp;#39;s gonna take just any horny fool who comes her way. At most, it means that she&amp;#39;s willing to consider. But the way most men force themselves upon women~ like skimpy dressing, or even flashing is consent to sex....is well, pretty stupid, I think. It might be a way to draw attention, sure, but the clamour for attention doesn&amp;#39;t really mean that she wants every male around to fuck her...like show some taste guys..you know?...Be humans yourself- imagine how tiring it could be if literally every girl was feeling you up when you bend down and your underwear shows above your low waist jeans (or even assuming that anything like this is an invitation to fuck)...and well, it&amp;#39;s not that you intend it all the time...many a time, you&amp;#39;re not even aware...so please learn the difference between when girls want attention, when it&amp;#39;s inadvertent, well, basically make girls feel like they are not some alien from outer space or some exotic being who needs to be ogled at without human feelings. And girls just know if you&amp;#39;re lusting after them as sex toys or as well, seeing them as hot humans, so to say. :)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/10387075/7038335180959861886/comments/default/5903297100830087279'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/10387075/7038335180959861886/comments/default/5903297100830087279'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.blanknoise.org/2011/02/anands-response-to-locutus83.html?showComment=1298200089478#c5903297100830087279' title=''/><author><name>Lunar</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.blanknoise.org/2011/02/anands-response-to-locutus83.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-7038335180959861886' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/10387075/posts/default/7038335180959861886' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1899270696'/></entry></feed>
