tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post5440038505028688889..comments2023-11-03T13:58:45.214+05:30Comments on BLANK NOISE: street tales of love lust and possible misinterpretationsUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-44520956673199912022009-08-19T09:12:29.480+05:302009-08-19T09:12:29.480+05:30The person who is approaching i think usually has ...The person who is approaching i think usually has the upper hand in a conversation.<br /> For instance, if i were to approach someone i am sure of what i want to say and hence not too uncomfortable for me. At the same time if a stranger approached me, i would react in a questioning sense and i would only be okay to have a conversation depending on what he wants to communicate about as i would never be able to trust a person until i know his reason for approaching me. I guess it also depends upon the background of the stranger and the way he or she approaches.Poojahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02928936785827284797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-18752629657058380842009-08-18T23:39:33.099+05:302009-08-18T23:39:33.099+05:30yes. the question though is also in HOW he is appr...yes. the question though is also in HOW he is approaching her. does no mean no? how do most men interpret a NO- in some cases a " no means yes" and to pursue her is seen as the male thing to do.<br /><br />yes attraction is basic and natural and needs to be allowed on the streets too. our privatized public spaces such as coffee days have it " alot can happen over coffee" but why not the streets? or can we look at what are the different codes and signals for street flirting? i met a couple once and they are married now. they met at a traffic signal.Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13512982989981340707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-36538305766090241122009-08-18T23:02:05.888+05:302009-08-18T23:02:05.888+05:30Due to the everyday nature of eveteasing, the idea...Due to the everyday nature of eveteasing, the idea of a man approaching a woman being genuinely intrested in getting to know her, is reduced to the point of non-occurence in women's minds.<br /><br />Even the idea that we can approach an attractive man and start a conversation is impossible. Its sad because attraction is such a basic and natural thing and to not be allowed to express it is in my opinion not entirely healthy. This is what may contribute to build up of sexual frustration and hence help propergate eve teasing.tanveehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14900501387129528509noreply@blogger.com