tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post114060658285437224..comments2012-01-12T17:21:57.797+05:30Jnoreply@blogger.comBlogger158125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-13530281123403450982009-09-09T06:43:41.886+05:302009-09-09T06:43:41.886+05:30Great to be here.De-addictionhttp://de-adiction.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-31675136409103215382009-09-01T13:35:17.990+05:302009-09-01T13:35:17.990+05:30hi surinder. we couldnt agree with you more. you are so right about male and female interactions having a soft side as well. we dont deny that - thats why the street tales of love lust and possible misinterpretations.Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13512982989981340707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-19880412001666876192009-09-01T13:21:53.499+05:302009-09-01T13:21:53.499+05:30too much of mud sluging.pl stop it.be a little decent citizen.dont be an extremist.just to fill the belly of a BLOG you should not write all rubish.both men &amp; wonen are from same species(mamalian)having brains.insted of having a soft corner for each other,we are trying to kill eachother.S.K.KHARSurinderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15208584979998887684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-37671684133104608882009-05-11T18:07:00.000+05:302009-05-11T18:07:00.000+05:30Thanks for sharing your nice work...nice post.Web Development Chennaihttp://www.platoon.innoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-10779043660106767382009-04-25T16:10:00.000+05:302009-04-25T16:10:00.000+05:30Thanks a lot for providing such informations.<br /><br /><A HREF="http://www.russiamore.com/" REL="nofollow">Russian Girls</A>Alex Appletonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14167261987574195167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-64366307537570163662009-01-17T11:40:00.001+05:302009-01-17T11:40:00.001+05:30i like your blog ....bollywood girlshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15643926136125568069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-74633817738359439002009-01-17T11:40:00.000+05:302009-01-17T11:40:00.000+05:30Thanks u r informationweb designer,web design Indiahttp://www.vijayinfo.innoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-12954394511797205432008-10-20T10:24:00.000+05:302008-10-20T10:24:00.000+05:30The Blank Noise Project is a community-public art project that seeks to confront street harassment, commonly known as eve teasing, in India. The project, created by Jasmeen Patheja in August 2003, started out as a student project at Sristhi School of Art, Design and Technology in Bangalore and has since spread out to other cities in India. The project works with the victims, the perpetrators and spectators of street sexual harassment and hopes to bring a change in the public perception of eve teasing, which is still largely considered a minor problem.The project has undertaken actions such as spray painting messages recording the testimonies of victims of sexual harassment in public places, and printing T-shirts with anti-harassment messages on them.A more controversial aspect of the blog is its collection of uploaded photos of men alleged to be eve-teasers, taken using using phone cameras by the alleged victims at the scenes of the alleged incidents.<BR/>---------------------------------<BR/>reeja<BR/><BR/><A HREF="http://www.widecircles.com" REL="nofollow"> LinkBuilding</A>Reejahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06463330595770996531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-19823665290190909652007-06-24T08:13:00.000+05:302007-06-24T08:13:00.000+05:30From Kolkata to New York City:<BR/>http://www.villagevoice.com/news/0725,hilliard,76981,2.htmlFeminist Reviewhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01146840036438732265noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-1158779185223859652006-09-21T00:36:00.000+05:302006-09-21T00:36:00.000+05:30Hi<BR/>I think this is a gr8 project n all d best. I just wanna tell those ppl who think girls who dress'indecently' areasking foreve -teasing.Women wearing salwar-kameez too are contstntly eve-teased.U cant categorize ppl this way.All eve-teaers are sick pervs and need to change their attitude.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-1157927482013032842006-09-11T04:01:00.000+05:302006-09-11T04:01:00.000+05:30Hi Jasmeen,<BR/><BR/>Hope I spelled ur name correctly. I have been reading all the incident and blogs even the activities u guys are carrying out and i appreciate it. Now just read the thing carefully and if u feel u have some thing to say than mail me.<BR/><BR/>Case : 1<BR/><BR/>72 yr old lady raped. killed and again raped. What to do with this sick minded fuckers.<BR/><BR/>Case : 2<BR/><BR/>Prostitution is at it heights. What to do with these kind of character less gals n guys. Dance bar again started and that too with the permission of court. Infact those womens are better who recently oppesed and broken all wines shopes in their village and make thier hubby and dad to stay away with dirnks and prostitute. <BR/><BR/>Case : 3<BR/><BR/>Attitude of people towards women. For ex. airhostess I have seen atleast 10-15 guys in each trip starring and talking rashly abt them who are infact serving them and inturn they get their dirty mind looking at them and still they keep on smiling.<BR/><BR/>Case : 4<BR/><BR/>Adult movies. Does this film producer get licensce to show any damn thing in their movies and rating it as Adult movie so escaping with cheap trick and earning lots of money by evoking such kind of bad culture and spoiling the indian heritage.<BR/><BR/>Case : 5<BR/><BR/>You know jasmeen that girls are easily escaped if they see any guy as their sexual victim or fantasize them to be with them because we guys cant read their eyes and mind. For ex. I have seen the movie today “lage raho munna bhai” i saw 4 girls were looking at the underwear of a guy who came there to see the movie and continously laughing and making a scene out there. Had it been the reverse and one of your member been there could have created a blog and posted it as humiliaton to that gal. Why?<BR/><BR/>lastly I dint get any other ID so i am writing through this comment. I will mail u this same in 1 hr. I have noted it down some where. But u reply me if u think wht i am saying is right or wrong. If i am right then ofcourse u can guide me and have proper justifcation an if no thn I have my own ways to change it.<BR/><BR/>Best Regards<BR/>CelibateAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-1157723536128842002006-09-08T19:22:00.000+05:302006-09-08T19:22:00.000+05:30probably a little late i came via the blog today only....<BR/><BR/>here is the post <BR/>http://monikamanchanda15.blogspot.com/2006/09/blank-noise-project-couple-of-people.htmlMonikahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02627040210376581730noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-1151876200454677072006-07-03T03:06:00.000+05:302006-07-03T03:06:00.000+05:30Hi, I suggest the moderators delete the posts by this 'person' Swarup. Its not worth it to even comment on these. Lets keep the discussions sane.<BR/><BR/>DNAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-1150478654998625782006-06-16T22:54:00.000+05:302006-06-16T22:54:00.000+05:30Hello Mam,<BR/> As some one(Anonymous) had said, Men and Women are completely different.If a gal is looking pretty ( but in some traditional dress), definitely guys won't try to dash or make any illicit comments...., if she is looking hot( most of them are due to dressing behaviour), then definitely aggrevate male's hormones and defenitely he will try( or atleast stares at ) willfully or instentanious...it is male's nature....but u gals have different weak point....!(will tell u later...).Pls don't tell u never look up a Guy( Smart one), and tried to a friend of him..<BR/><BR/> Humans are social animals..we are no exceptions to animal instinct( or atleast to some level,may be degree varies between persons).A Female species selects a Strongest among the crowd,and male tries to fu*** as many as possible..The same reflects here too.. Women tries for a one with Wealth, Who takes care of her and her child.., and Men look for a Beautiful Gals... It wud be better u blame the Nature rather than the whole Male Gender....<BR/> I know very well that this post wud surely be deleted, but I know atleast u wud read it....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-1148304688016596442006-05-22T19:01:00.000+05:302006-05-22T19:01:00.000+05:30GAYATHRI HERE - <BR/>this is a reply to the post by vasanth <BR/>1- about marine drive- there was a girl and her bf- gettin intimate or whatever...YOU ONLY TALK ABOUT WHAT THE GIRL DID NOT WHAT THE BOY DID(PLEASE TAKE NOTE) the cop feels it is his God given right to show the girl how she should behave (by raping her) since he is a man and he has a right to victimise women. BUT her bf goes scott free. u were talking of women getting freedom Mr.Vasanth ?<BR/>what punihsment does the boy get for getting intimate with the girl in a public place ? nothing because men have a right to do all the non sense they can not just to their gfs, other completely strange women too ( called sexual harrasement, rape) ok ? what about culture,values (or whatever garbage) for men ? why are all the rules for women ? did you say stng abt women and freedom vasanth ? again ??????<BR/>THERE ARE TWO MEN- YES MEN TO BE BLAMED HERE SUNIL MORE THE COP AND THE GIRL'S BF, <BR/>2- quoting your words <BR/> "Then again the Jessica Lal case. What was a model from a decent family doing at midnight" <BR/>"a millowners son raping a 52 year old woman. He picked her up at Kala Ghoda at 2.30 am in the night (morning>) What was she doing at that time of the night <BR/>at a place which after dark is teeming with streetwalkers and pimps and drug addicts? "<BR/><BR/>so men decide when women go out... what time of the day AND WHERE?... etc etc. women cant ? <BR/>u call this freedom ?<BR/>can i hear a pervert saying if you go out at mid nights then you are asking for it ? i have relatives in singapore, i know girls/women there go out all ALONE at mid night WITHOUT A maLe escort. still are safe.a woman still doesnt/cant decide about going to a place of her choice or at a time of the day which is convenient to her. because "men are sexual predators at the mercy of their hormones, who think women are objects of sexual gratification"...repeating a cliched statment all Indian girls have grown up listening to... WHAT WERE YOU SAYING ABOUT WOMEN AND FREEDOM ? <BR/>3 again quoting you <BR/>"and then went on a lonely street to meet her boyfriend perhaps to have a binge with him at some joint.<BR/> What followed is in the realm of guesswork" <BR/>LONELY STREET ???like i said men decide where women go and dont go. lonely street is a place where men decide that women dont enter... freedom... anyone... women ???<BR/>3. "that the woman might have been a CSW ( at age 52) " <BR/>SO A WOMAN WHO IS A CSW IS AMORAL ?you know these women Serve men ? and it is these MEN who get infections like hiv from csws and take it home to their wives. some men are aware that they are hiv postitive but they still hide it from the women they marry ? and in a culture like this women are kept ignorant about things like HIV- befor you counter argue only 9.2% indian women graduate- so you can imagine how many know about hiv ?.. i am not going off topic...again its about-FREEDOM ? <BR/>4. "Her room mates confirmed that she was a heavy smoker and<BR/> accustomed to heavy drinking." like i said women who smoke and drink are amoral... but no such rules for men. FREEDOM ? U SAID MR?<BR/>.... BUT unfortunately for you VASANTH and fortunately for us women you know what ????? there is still hope in men AND THERE IS STILL HOPE THAT THERE CAN BE A BETTER WORLD OUR DAUGHTERS<BR/>and that is what we are all trying to build ! <BR/>- THANK YOU JASMEEN FOR GIVING ME A PLATFORM TO TALKgayathrinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-1148147255792635462006-05-20T23:17:00.000+05:302006-05-20T23:17:00.000+05:30Hey Jasmeen,<BR/><BR/>Great work. your blog is a true sounding board. <BR/><BR/>After Prathiba's rape and murder in Bangalore a lot of corporations have hired us to teach self defence to their women employees.<BR/><BR/>Your blog has influenced our self defence course. We use some situations we find here as role play to help women find non violent solutions. Will send you some results soon. <BR/><BR/>Just wanted to say "Well Done!"<BR/><BR/>visit our website to see how we tackle this issue using self defence training.<BR/><BR/>www.gittstuff.com<BR/><BR/>Ashwin MohanShootfighterhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13700081856921252928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-1147620693235742432006-05-14T21:01:00.000+05:302006-05-14T21:01:00.000+05:30Hey,<BR/>very late but my contibution to the blogathon<BR/><BR/>http://space-to-write.blogspot.com/Scorpiohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12828335183675960548noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-1146218713584565192006-04-28T15:35:00.000+05:302006-04-28T15:35:00.000+05:30hey jasmeen,<BR/><BR/>munish here!!!! was just browsing through nd found your link... so cool!!!! im very happy for you!!!<BR/><BR/>me in delhi working in a modelling agency and an event company...<BR/><BR/>shifting to mumbai this december...<BR/><BR/>my e-mail id is- munish10@gmail.com<BR/><BR/>my number 9910445944Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-1144868448004517802006-04-13T00:30:00.000+05:302006-04-13T00:30:00.000+05:30Check this link out.Its an online survey on eve teasing. Please feel free to add your suggestions.<BR/><BR/>http://delhi.aidindia.org/bethechange/component/option,com_mosforms/Itemid,243/anirbanhttp://delhi.aidindia.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-1144003625684241632006-04-03T00:17:00.000+05:302006-04-03T00:17:00.000+05:30What is this swarup guy talking abt...maybe he has a pt abt rape laws in our countries n their being misused by some women bt this is totally out of the context...and i really did nt uderstand any of his surpnakha crap...bt it is really time the guys started being more sensitive on da streets and stop leering and staring at women.The behaviour of a few gives a bad name 2 every1.<BR/><BR/>A noble n gallant effort this is...bt i really don't know where this is going...how is blogging on da net gonna stop the man in the street harassing a women???What is the long term goal of da lady???And what is the final destination and wat part can this blog play in that r some of da questions lingering in my mind.....still i wish u all the best in ur this n future endeavours....<BR/><BR/>IMPOSSIBLE IS NOTHINGvinay246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-1142888975127712832006-03-21T02:39:00.000+05:302006-03-21T02:39:00.000+05:30hiiiii<BR/>i read the article an even am very much concerned about this matter. it would b my previlage as a woman myself to join in the group<BR/>prathibhaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-1142794895151004972006-03-20T00:31:00.000+05:302006-03-20T00:31:00.000+05:30am i a little late to voice in?Dewaker Basnethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09516690618899020201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-1142674357049566322006-03-18T15:02:00.000+05:302006-03-18T15:02:00.000+05:30Women & men think differently & this is scientifically proven.Men get exicted visually & women takes some time to get exicted sexually.So the onus is on women not to expose & tease the man to hold his faculties.Every person is not the same.Some can control the urges some cannot.If the womans clevages & curves are catching ones eye the male will definetly stare at it.So y give chance in the first place.Dress modestly & this will reduce the problem to certain extent.It is like inviting a thief by keeping the house open rather we safely secure the house by locking it there by reducing the chance of theaft attempt.Still the house is not completly secure even if you lock it as some people will try to break in.This is exactly what i mean when i ask women to be modest.YOu are infact reducing the chances not eliminating it mind you.Reduce the chances rather than asking the males to change the mindset & you say you want to be free with ur mind & body.You will expose but restraint should come from the male.This is next to impossible given the current situation where genders are segegrated.Make attempts to reduce the opportunity for males for the simple reason that males are visual creatures & really get exicted by the shapely curves.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-1142601504121857162006-03-17T18:48:00.000+05:302006-03-17T18:48:00.000+05:30Women who support abortions are much more violent. Swarup is only exposing it....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10387075.post-1142576935305627202006-03-17T11:58:00.000+05:302006-03-17T11:58:00.000+05:30Swarup cool down , nandini is not that type of girls as described by you , at the same time i understand the way you have seen the world makes you to think all nandini as Modern Supernakh .<BR/><BR/>Not all women are bad and not all men are bad , we have to fight together to support the right people , let it be men or women.<BR/><BR/>This for nandini , yes swarup is very harsh , but he had very valid point , stop this men vs women fight , otherwise both will loose .<BR/><BR/>To improve the condition of any society both men and women must take equal responsiblity , by blaming each other will not going to solve any thing.<BR/>So let go back to the work and stop this fighting .<BR/>Kush had a very very strong feeling , stop single parenting system , hope this is a very very strong campin for Blank noise in future , as wahtever we are doing for our future child , not for us , we can sustain whatever condition we have , but we must work together by keeping in mind the interest of future child , we must think waht type of society we are going to hand over to them .<BR/>This is my samll observation .A Indian Womennoreply@blogger.com